Dating for shy people sparknotes

by  |  19-Sep-2019 04:50

The most important point for shy men and women dating is to get them out of their heads and into the moment as much as possible.

If you’re a shy person, you probably know too well that you have a tendency to think, think, think when you’re thrust into new social situations.

The good news is that you can often fidget with your fingers on a date without having your date even know by keeping your hands in your pockets or under the table if you’re out for that romantic dinner.

The takeaway: Shyness often gets better with age and practice.

In fact, you need to simultaneously work on managing the anxiety that so many shy men and women feel on a new date.

Let me share a couple of techniques that will make you feel less anxious when you really want to sit back and enjoy your date. I’ll share a trick that I have used in my career which has helped tremendously.

At the end of the day, this is the main secret to successful dating, especially for shy men and women: distract yourself from the thoughts in your head and come out, come out, come out to play. Being shy basically means that you have a lot of personality inside you, but you feel uncomfortable releasing it to people you don’t really know.

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