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“But, I thought that meant she would make the first move.”I still claim my laugh was of the gentle, accepting variety.“You sound like Ursula the Sea-witch,” she said. ”My friend isn’t some recently-out nineteen-year-old. She’s had her share of long term relationships; she’s been to the Michigan Women’s Festival, for Christ sake.
“didn’the.” She spoke as if to a three-year-old, albeit one moonlighting as a psychotherapist.“Right,” I said.
“Because she’s butch.”My friend sat back in her chair.
For example, my itemized catalogue of Sexual Positions: Best to Worst did not always go over well when I was on the dating scene.
Especially when I helpfully unfolded it post-coitus. Websites have FAQ’s, appliances have manuals, why must the intricacies of lesbian dating practices be learned on the fly?
Getting some human interaction with someone you know and love will get you out of your head and ease you into the date. Try it with me: In through the nose, out through the mouth. Whoever I’m dating is going to eventually find out that I’m the queen of anxiety anyway, so why not just be honest?